B.O.S.S. NOTES
Unapologetic & In Charge: Leadership, Life, and Lessons for the Bold WomanWelcome to B.O.S.S. Notes — the written companion to the BossUP with Tina Bailey podcast.
This is your space to pause, reflect, and power up. Here, we talk mindset, strategy, self-leadership, and what it really takes to lead like a woman who’s done waiting for permission.
Whether you’re building a brand, setting boundaries, or simply trying to prioritize yourself without guilt — these notes are for you.
Because around here? We don’t just survive. We lead. We shift. We BOSSUP.
Talks with Tina
QUESTION: I’m embarrassed to write this but I promised myself I would get help. I am in a relationship that in the past has been abusive. He hasn’t hit me in a long time. I know this relationship is not good for me but it seems I can’t let it go. I’ve tried to end it...
Are You HAPPY?
Are you happy? I mean genuinely happy. What does happy look like to you? What does happy feel like? Does being happy require assistance from someone or something? Can you be happy all by yourself? I know so many questions but I’m just curious. We all say we want to...
Where’s Your Purple Rain?
Another one of America’s musical legends died this week. The death of Prince Roger Nelson seem to have taken the world by surprise. If you look over social media, you see so many different responses from sadness to anger. People are slipping into depression. Some are...
Why do they stay? (Talks with Tina)
Q: Why do women stay in abusive relationships? If it’s so bad why don’t they just leave? A: This question was personal to me. Because not only have I asked someone this question but I’ve been asked this question. It gets to the point that you don’t tell anyone...
Be Anxious for NOTHING!!!
Do thoughts of the future scare you? Do the inability to know what tomorrow holds keep you up at night? Have you ever wondered if you made the right decision? Or maybe you focus on what someone may be saying about you? Some people become so consumed with their...
Is This Abuse? (Talks with Tina)
Question: My friends say I am in an abusive relationship but I don’t think I am. He only hit me once and promised never to do it again. He’s very passionate about things and sometimes he gets loud to get his point across. My friends say that’s not normal. He reminds...
