We’ve all heard the saying, “Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.” While it might seem like sound advice on the surface, I’m here to challenge that notion and offer a different perspective on how to truly protect your peace.
There is a cost associated with being too close to negativity!
The idea of keeping your enemies close, while it appears to offer a strategic advantage, and we are all about strategy around here; but it can have a significant impact on your emotional well-being. 
Those negative vibes your enemy releases can cause mental drain. Constantly engaging with negativity can drain your mental energy, leaving you feeling distracted, overwhelmed, and disconnected from your true purpose. It can also interrupt your focus. Instead of focusing on building your own success, you might find yourself preoccupied with monitoring the moves of your perceived enemies. Who has time for that?
I lean towards divine justice over forcing anything!
The scripture that states “God will prepare a table before your enemies” is often misinterpreted. This doesn’t imply you should actively seek out or maintain close relationships with those who oppose you. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. In my opinion this verse is a reminder that your success will unfold naturally, without the need to constantly engage with those who wish to see you fail. It also reminds me that God prepares the table – not us. And He prepares it in His timing! When we focus on God’s timing and his intentions, we allow success to unfold organically. You are not required to force anything.
It’s time to focus on positive surroundings!
Why expend precious energy nurturing negative bonds when you could be cultivating relationships that truly uplift you? Surrounding yourself with genuine supporters who celebrate your victories and encourage your dreams fosters a positive and empowering environment. The influence of supportive relationships fuels your growth and paves the way for authentic success.
Girlfriend, it’s time to reclaim your power!
In a world that often pressures us to conform and please everyone, it’s crucial to prioritize nurturing relationships that empower rather than those that drain. It’s time to release the toxic ties that you have to toxic people. This will require courage. If someone is constantly bringing negativity into your life, release them. You don’t owe them anything. Build your own empire. channel the energy you reclaim from letting go of those negative Nancys and pursue your dreams with unwavering confidence. As you reclaim your power, you will find that you really weren’t missing anything anyway.
Guarding your peace is an act of self-love and empowerment. By prioritizing positive relationships and releasing toxic ties, you create space for authentic success to bloom. Remember, you do not need to keep your enemies close to succeed. Trust in your own journey and let your light shine brightly. You are the CEO of your life. It’s okay to demote and terminate those that are not helping you achieve your goals and promote those that are.
I hope this encourages you to pursue success instead of paying attention to where your enemies are or what they are doing. That’s God’s problem not yours.
Until Next Time,
