With so many coaches and consultants popping up, it is hard to determine the right fit for you. I often tell my clients you want to find a coach or consultant that you can connect with. One that will provide you with a challenge but also understand your apprehensions.
Any time you take on a new endeavor or make a choice to change something in your life, there is usually some apprehensions or fear. I believe it doesn’t scare you a little bit, you are playing to small and need to step out of your comfort zone.
That brings me to the 5 things I love doing for my clients.
- Encouraging them to jump! The only way to learn to fly is by jumping into the sky. You must be willing to break free from your comfort zone and take a leap. Because I am clearly aware of how fear can paralyze you, I do have empathy BUT because of that same observation, I know the importance of the push.
- Giving them permission to draw outside of the lines! We were all taught to play by the rules and color inside the lines. But what has that got you? A life that is anything but daring. Women are daring. We’re risk takers. Ask any woman that have brought life into this world or have navigated the world of dating. Those are risk on a whole different level. But most of our lives have been about taking risk that benefit someone else. Well, my philosophy is you can be selfish and draw outside the lines and create new lines if necessary.
- Changing their mindset! There is NO such thing as failure. You either do it or learn what don’t work. I love helping my clients embrace the idea they can start over as many times as necessary to accomplish their goals and it does not make them failure. It strengthens their trust in themselves and the environment they create.
- Releasing the BOSS! In my opinion, EVERY woman is a BOSS. Maybe she hasn’t been given permission to show up as the BOSS in her own life, but she is a BOSS none the less. I help her package herself as her most valued product and present it to the audience of her choosing.
- Providing structure in the mist of chaos. Life is complicated. If you are juggling professional and personal life, you have your hands full. I provide structure to madness and help them create systems that streamline life and bring harmony to the chaos. It’s never going to be perfect but it can be manageable.
I hope this helps you to see why finding the right coach or consultant is key. If you are struggling with whether you need to hire a coach or a consultant, please read this blog where I explain the difference. Remember this is your life. Everything you need is inside of you, maybe having the right helper can empower you to release it.
If you would like to discuss this topic further or work with me, please contact me at info@tinabaileyonline.comntil
Until Next Time,